[Dilea]

Thank you so much for giving me some ray of hope! 

I did make a decision. I have told him how I feel about starting our marriage under these circumstances, and I told him it was definitely too soon. If/when we do decide to get married, it has to be with 100% trust, which I dont have with him right now. I also told him I thought it would be a good idea that we both see a therapist.  He agreed, but I’m apprehensive as he has said this before with no effort at all. 

It seems the only thing he responds to at all is if he thinks I’m done with him. 

I do understand addiction, and have been through making the decision and stopping the unhealthy, life and family losing habit. It wasnt easy for me, but I had to do it by myself. I know if he is just honest with me and hiself, and really wants to quit, I can help him but its ha str d to grasp at times. 

I do appreciate the insights about how a cg feels and any other comments or ideas are welcome. It’s in my nature, I cant give up that easily!

Dilea

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