Hi Colleenp51, A Warm Welcome to Gambling Therapy
Having found us you have also found a diverse community who can help and support you on your recovery journey.
Here on the forum you can share your experiences in a safe, supportive and non-judgemental environment and by reading others stories am sure you will see that you are very much not alone in this addiction
Please click here to see our services page, feel free to use all that this site can offer…
To chat with others in real time you may wish to make use of the support groups, the ***** of these groups are advertised under "What’s on and When" or click here to see the weekly group schedule.
For one to one chat you may want to try the live advice helpline. Click "connect" when these options become available.
Also to say when you registered we would have sent you an email with an attachment, this attachment will help you navigate the site and find the support you so rightly deserve, alternatively this guide can be downloaded by clicking here.  
Take Care
Harry"Occasionally it?s wise to doubt our doubts, to question our questions, and to re-think our thoughts."

Hi Colleen
It was nice seeing you on chat today and I am glad you have come here.  It is a big step looking for help and this is just the place to find it.. Keep posting and coming to groups.. you will get there Colleen, the days will add up and time will go on and you can have a gamble free life.. it is waiting for you.. think of the barriers that were talked about today that will help you.  Good on you Colleen you have taken a big step to helping yourself
 P – Living and Learning

Welcome Colleen.  Continue to post your story and read other posts.  You are not alone.  We will offer you advise and encouragement.  We will not (can not) judge you as we are CG and have been there also.  I find it is best not to look back or ahead but to stay focussed in today.  One day at a time………….NancyWhat lies behind us and what lies before us are small matters compared to what lies within us………….

Hi Colleen
I am sorry that you are feeling that way right now but it will change.  Keep thinking the future will get better, right now you are at the bottom and the only way from here is up!  You will feel better as your gamble free days add up, the longer you are away from gambling the better you will feel.  Keep coming here and using the support, try to find a GA meeting close to you and go once a week and keep using this site.  Try group chats and go on the one on one line.  There is hope Colleen you can do this.  You just need to put all the barriers in place to let you start working at being gamble free.  Dont carry money on you or cards, ban where you can and keep working at this recovery like you worked at gambling.. be consistent, no matter how you feel.. hope to see you soon and congratulations on your day 2
 P – Living and Learning

Originally posted by colleenp51
… am afraid of my future …      and,
… I have no way out of the place that I am. …

Good evening Colleen, my name is Larry and I am a Compulsive Gambler, my last bet was August 13, 2009.  Welcome to GT, it is a place you can find help.  You will also find the friendship of others that have experienced all the things that you have; including hurting and alienating all around us through deceit and lies, and being in a position of having no money to even buy the needed essentials. We have all felt all the same hurt and guilt –  you are not alone in your trouble. 
 
First, I am pleased that we are about to share birthdays on the 13th, your belly-button birthday (Happy Birthday), and my gambling free one — one year of being gambling free. One year ago I had no future, or like you, I was afraid of the only future I could foresee; I had no way out of the place that compulsive gambling took me. Again like you, I am grateful to God that I found this site; and I am truly thankful for all the help I found here that has brought me to this point.  
You too can make it to this point and carry on even further with a gambling free renewed and better life.  Keep reading the post here and learn from the advice of others; then put what you learn to work for you in making the needed changes in your life.  Follow the guidance in the Serenity Prayer: "God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference.", practice the basic principle "Do Not Gamble For Anything", and set your goal for living gambling free "One Day At A Time".
God’s speed, use your Higher Power to strengthen and guide you.Larry"Day Two Is Another Day Behind" – With the help of a Higher Power, My 3G’s – God, GA, and GT, I will continue to be  gambling free.

Hi Colleen,
I’m so glad that you’ve found this site!  I’ve been here since January, and the site, with all of these wonderful people have really helped me to make a turn around in my life.  You can do it too.  Glad you are here and take advantage of the chats and posting.  It really does make a difference and I’m sure you will find real help here with your recovery!You can do anything if you put your mind to it! Have great day! – DD

Colleen,  Have you thought of counselling.  You can get free gambling counseling by calling the gambling hotline number.  I used it and the counsellor helped me alot to understand.  Are there any jobs in your area you can apply to?  Keep busy as this will keep the urges at bay.  Hope everything works out for you…Nancy

Hi Colleen
I am so glad to hear you went to GA.. good for you.  It is amazing when we start listening to others stories how we know we are not alone in this.. keep posting here and join in groups Colleen and you will find support every step of the way.  Be proud of yourself that you are finding the help that you need as some people never do.. see you soon
 P – Living and Learning

Keep coming here Colleen and read, read, read….Also, join the chats.  Weekends, chats are open all the time.  hope to see you there!If you are heading in the wrong direction, God allows U-turns!

Hey Colleen
Hows things going lately, lets know how you are doing
 P – Living and Learning

Hi Colleen – I believe we met last night at GA.  Your story is very similar to mine.  Life does go on.  I had to leave a job that I loved back in 1997 after taking a large amount of money over a several years.  I spent 150 days in work release and actually started in GA around 1998 or 9.  I would like to say that I learned something and life changed for me but even smart people have to find their own path to recovery and I took the long way.  I came to GA in 2001 again and celebrated my one year, was cured and started believing that I could gamble like a normal person again.  I finally decided to lock the revolving door of GA 11/30/2008 and have been coming back every since.  I no longer entertain the thoughts of a big win.  Your story was very important to me in that it reminded me of my story and how I felt when I was in the position of explaining to my family why I no longer had the job that I held for many years.  I hope you do not mind me posting and keep coming back.  Use the phone list. 
Gloria M.
Winning a jackpot will never be life changing, but gambling compulsively is for me.– 8/16/2010 3:32:43 PM: post edited by Gloria M.

Hi Colleen
So pleased to hear of your progress.. that is wonderful that someone calls to check in with you.. very good and well done on your time gamble free, those days will add up, just be consistent in working at staying gamble free even if your day is good or bad.. you can do this Colleen you already are
 P – Living and Learning

Hi Colleen, and welcome to GT!
Thank God you have found this place in time, because, believe me,as bad as things seem to be for you now, they CAN get worse!
Compulsive gambling is a progressive disease and our lives can pass by denying this or denying that we are CGS.
From the first time I put money in a slot machine. I knew I had a problem. I knew I had formed a sick bond with this stranger and I knew that all I would ever get for my faithfulness, was abuse and gief! Yet I continued to convince myself that this was the life for me.
I gradually put gambling before my family, my friends,(not before my work) my health, my beliefs until  I came to the point , in May 2008, when I was refused any further loans from my bank. On that day, I was frantically searching the internet for some lending agency, any ‘shark’, who would supply me with further ammunition to feed my ‘craving lover’, when by chance, I found this site….
I thought I had it made. No turning back. No more gambling. No more worries. No more fears. My burden was lifted…………
But that wasn’t quite how it worked out Colleen! My dreams /nightmares didn’t end as soon as I woke up, as a matter of fact some of my nightmares only began then…
You see Colleen, gambling leaves a trail of destruction behind it. The gambling legacy is cruel and mean. Recovery is about far more tan giving up gambling. We learn that the hard way. We fall. We rise. We hope. We despair. But the secret FOR ME, is NEVER SURRENDER….never give up hope!
For you, for me. for everybody here, there is a better life ahead.
Tonight, as I type these words, part of me ( the sick part , and yes, it is a sickness), would like nothing better, than to escape into the world of flashing lights and bells and buzzers and bars and sevens and quick fix remedies for all I need to escape from and forget that I am A CG……
The alter ego, the recovering me must  and it is a daily decision, must keep telling myself….just for today I cannot/will not gamble…
Keep posting!
God Bless! 

Hi Colleen —
Hope you are doing okay.  I know how hard it is early on in recovery and it looks like you are doing everything you can to help yourself.  Remember there are alot of people who are willing to help you whether it be listening to you or if you need a ride to a meeting until you get on your feet again.  I am going to be chairing a meeting next Sunday and it will be on a topic that I like from the One Day at a Time book (blue book) which is "Am I living in the problem rather than the answer" (I think or something like that).  I think sometimes we know what we need to do to get better but it is hard to keep moving.    Great job in making it through the first couple of weeks.Winning a jackpot will never be life changing, but gambling compulsively is for me.

— 30/03/2011 22:37:06: post edited by Shakey.

(WELL WELL!
IMAGINE MEETING YOU HERE SHAKEY!
LIFE IS FULL OF SURPRISES!)
can’t get the "all the sevens" caption to come up anymore Shakey….mabye that’s something to do with my seven and a half month g-free stint!………….
And YOU?  You still G-free?
how’s the driving?
(sorry for high-jacking your thread C)
7 7 7 7 7

Originally posted by colleenp51

Week 2
Week 2 has proven to be a little difficult for me as I am unemployed and out of money….
… I am better in knowing that I am around the right people during this dark time of my life. 
 
                          

Good morning Colleen’
Well done on your achievements in staying gambling free; use these difficult ***** as time to work on changes in your life and learning the different means of help.  The man you speak of about his selfish need to see you in recovery come form a GA member’s natural desire and need to work Step 12 of their program, it is not selfish on his part at all, only being a good practitioner.
And I will add alone those lines;  Your being here offers much help to us as well; You, and other newcomers like you, let us know that things have not changed in the gambling world for us CGs, your report renews our knowledge of this without us having to venture back into that abyss for a look for ourselves. Thank you for the help that the sharing of your story has provided, and for giving us an opportunity to help you.
 
It is better being around the right people.
God’s speed. Stay strong.Larry"Day Two Is Another Day Behind" – With the help of a Higher Power, My 3G’s – God, GA, and GT, I will continue to be  gambling free.

It was really nice chatting with you yesterday.  Don’t forget if you can’t get to a meeting there’s always groups that you can log into here and they also have counselling if you feel you need it.  The days and weeks will pass.  Call me if you need to talk.  Have a wonderful Monday.
 Winning a jackpot will never be life changing, but gambling compulsively is for me.

Hi Colleen, well done on the steps you are already taking.  Keep posting here, keep going to your meetings.  A day at a time you CAN stop gambling and turn yolur life around.  Your children will be proud of you, it takes a lot of courage to tackle a tough addiction.  Keep posting

congrats colleen on making a very important step, everything will work out!!!!!1There’s always gonna be another mountain, i’m always gonna want to make it move.

Hi Colleen congratulations on making it through these 3 weeks.. You can do this keep coming here for support and never give up, no matter what!!  We are all with you
 P – Living and Learning